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milpool
12-07-2006, 08:31 PM
for you folks in relationships that fuck..how often do you do it? i feel like a loser for not being the type to do it several times a day and all that jazz..dude i am too lazy and have shit to do.

but i was just curious to see how many times a week other couples are doin it. maybe i'm just not that sexual but i only really like to 1 or 2 times a week cause it just seems a lot more..i dunno. you gotta let the sexual frustration get all pent up and let lose once in awhile, i figure.

and so so so sorry to any of you that just pictured me and mark together. fo realz.

Static Split Screen
12-07-2006, 08:38 PM
once or twice a day when we're together in the begining, then it usually tapers off to 4 or 5 times a week. I think if we actually lived together all the time it'd be a bit less. Letting it build up is all well and good, but not when you have to wait like 7 months :(

milpool
12-07-2006, 08:40 PM
well yeah obv if you only get to see eachother for a few weeks at a time yer gonna be screwing like bunnies. but when you've lived together for well over a year i guess its bound to happen. shit, son.

Static Split Screen
12-07-2006, 08:43 PM
Yeah, and that'd be fine by me, I'd rather stretch it out more.

milpool
12-07-2006, 08:48 PM
hee hee heeeeeeeeeee. ah gawd, i swear i woke up last week as a perverted 13 year old boy and sex and poop are the funniest things in the world.

Kelly Kapowski
12-07-2006, 10:04 PM
i'm nervous for when/if i ever get married, because i will probably end up as those girls who only want sex once every lunar eclipse : (

milpool
12-07-2006, 10:08 PM
living in an old not-so-soundproof apartment kinda shits things up too i think. we're on the 3rd floor and i am pretty sure the folks downstairs can hear everything and its distracting and can people complain about other people doing it too loud? i wonder.

cigar store indian
12-07-2006, 11:07 PM
once i was being .errr loud. and i think my window was open. ANYWAY , clear as day i heard these guys walking down the block cracking up. :cry:

Static Split Screen
12-07-2006, 11:29 PM
I'm sure people have heard me before :ignore: though I just hope it's random people walking down the street, who cares about them!

Barbara
12-08-2006, 09:47 AM
it really depends on what's going on with us, but we've been living together about 3 and a half years now and I'd say we average about once or twice a week. I hate it when we're both not totally in the mood, there was about a month after his grandma died where he was real depressed and drinking constantly and didn't want to touch me... I felt so sad and neglected. But then there have been times when I know he's horny as hell but I've either been sick or just not up to it for whatever reason, and then I feel all guilty. Yeah, we definitely fucked a lot more when we first got together, I guess that's normal. We still have our times of romantic goofiness where we're all over each other, and those are nice, but life invariably turns crappy again eventually and sex takes a backseat to arguing and being miserable.

despite that, even when we have a really bad fight, life would be a lot more crappy without him to argue with!

kendra
12-08-2006, 11:41 AM
I think we've both been going through a lot of stress getting adjusted to LIEF which of course turns me into a frigid bitch or something (at least that's how I feel). It is very weird to feel warm and romantically about someone and then when it comes to sex it's like "Ohhh man, I am so not into this." I would say 1/2 times a week, which pisses me off a lot. I want to do it more but I don't want to do it, does that make any sense? I remember being really enthused. I want my old libido back!!!

I'd rather be an every other day person at least!!!! D: :( I should quit working and become a sex hobo :(

Edited to add, this does not include sexual favors such as oral and hand and such. I really enjoy doing that, but the actual innie outie sex either hurts or is tiring sometimes :cry:

xangeleso
12-08-2006, 03:38 PM
For me, it depends on the time in the month. All I want to say is that my husband should be grateful he hooked up with a nympho like myself :-D We usually end up having sex at least 4 xs a week. If not, every night. While I was on birth control I found that it diminished my libido. All I have to say is if I end up preggers, it will all be in great sex :-)

:xo:, Stef

Jackal
12-08-2006, 05:58 PM
We are down to once or twice a month lately. My experiment to let him be the instigator hasn't gone so well. The perks of him really wanting me and hitting on me more often is sweet, but we do it less. It seems more satisfying, since we are really horny by the time we get around to it.

Cheryl K
12-08-2006, 07:27 PM
once i was being .errr loud. and i think my window was open. ANYWAY , clear as day i heard these guys walking down the block cracking up. :cry:

Thankfully never experienced something like that, but there was a time once when a dog started barking... :-o

Peter
12-11-2006, 12:19 AM
when we're not both busy like crazy, usually 3 or 4 times a week. lately since she's in finals and i'm busy at work, it's down to 1 - 2 times a week. not enough :\

Lalique
12-21-2006, 02:21 PM
randomly. i have had sex maybe 5 or 6 times in the last month. I totally cannot be bothered. unless i have one of *those* dreams, or something.

Static Split Screen
12-21-2006, 03:05 PM
It was 2x a day but now with Craig going to the office it's been once a day.