View Full Version : do you guys ever go through a spell where you want everyone on earth?
Kelly Kapowski
10-24-2006, 07:43 PM
I am right now. I think it's probably because I miss my boyfriend so much and just want anyone to touch me, but god damn i'm crushing on everyone across the globe here! And it's people that i would otherwise want NOTHING to do with! I can't even believe myself half the time. Why couldn't i have felt this way when i was single??
Anyway, i'm 100% not going to act on anything, my god, it's nothing at all like that (love you irish john if yer spying), it's just that silly crush crap that is fun and keeping me occupied till i get layed again, but it's also dumb. It's just weird b/c i'm always used to finding negative amounts of people appealing. I go through spurts, and they last about a week and occur about once every 4 - 5 months.
Am i alone on this?
ramblingrose
10-24-2006, 07:47 PM
Oh, you're certainly not alone, but I haven't had a crush on a real person for 18 months! Worrying! But I have now, though it will come to naught D: /:D :yar:
I rarely really get a crush on anyone, I just like people. I have a crush right now though, it makes me happy :D.
Kelly Kapowski
10-24-2006, 07:58 PM
yeah but you guys, they are on the DUMBEST PEOPLE EVER!!! like, on guys stuck in 1994 and stuff!
when its been a loooong time, yes, if i see some muscles i just wanna jump them. its sad.
Cheryl K
10-24-2006, 09:14 PM
Re: do you guys ever go through a spell where you want everyone on earth?
YES. Minus girls though.
Static Split Screen
10-24-2006, 11:05 PM
I get attracted to people I see walking down the street, but that's rare, because there are very. very. few attractive males here. I so start getting so so frustrated after I haven't seen Craig in awhile, especially when we go 7 months without seeing each other. Talk about torture.
Larkspur
10-24-2006, 11:37 PM
Every month...for about 3 days...I want let EVERYONE hit it.
Barbara
10-25-2006, 10:17 AM
lol
I don't know if this is the same thing, but I have this big soft spot for sad lonesome sensitive guys, like if a guy is like "Poor me, I'll never be able to meet a nice girl who will love me!!!" in my head I'll be like "OMG I would love you!!!!!!" :cry: even though I'm taken. So all I can really say is like "Oh you'll meet someone someday" which is totally lame :(
Jackal
10-25-2006, 10:34 AM
Yes. Right after my period. I want them all and picture myself with them. I feel purvey too, because I see how sexy they are, but then I really look at them, I think, "Oh my God, he must be 17!" eeek. Which is odd, because when I was young I liked the older men with grey hair, and now for the first time ever I find younger men attractive. It's not even just the good looking men I find attractive, it's the ugly, dorks, weaklings, and sometimes even fat men.
My husband likes this week! :heart:
I read a study once that this is quite common. The hornier we are we find more manly men attractive, and the rest of the time we like the actual good looking men.
lol
I don't know if this is the same thing, but I have this big soft spot for sad lonesome sensitive guys, like if a guy is like "Poor me, I'll never be able to meet a nice girl who will love me!!!" in my head I'll be like "OMG I would love you!!!!!!" :cry: even though I'm taken. So all I can really say is like "Oh you'll meet someone someday" which is totally lame :(
I always thought girls thought that was a bit pathetic/sad, and made point not to say that even when I thought it! I shall have to try it sometime.
ramblingrose
10-25-2006, 11:45 AM
In moderation it can work, but if you take it too far you look weird.
Jackal
10-25-2006, 11:47 AM
Yes. It mostly makes me want to crush or punch them..unless it doesn't.
ramblingrose
10-25-2006, 11:54 AM
I totally understand! It's odd how on one person something is hateful, and on another it's all "aaaaaahhhhh bless".
Barbara
10-25-2006, 11:55 AM
yeah, it depends on how much they milk the "I'm so depressed" thing, sometimes it can be just annoying, but for many of them I just feel so much for them because I used to feel that way myself. Shit, I still do sometimes when things aren't going so well with me and CJ
Either way, I will always think more of the guy who seems insecure about girls, than the guy who is like "I'm the shit and all the chicks want my cock"; when guys act superior that's one of the biggest turn-offs for me. I guess there's a fine line between confidence and arrogance, and sometimes I can't distinguish between the two.
ramblingrose
10-25-2006, 11:57 AM
what are you getting cross about?
ramblingrose
10-25-2006, 12:03 PM
Who indeed?
ramblingrose
10-25-2006, 12:04 PM
:jesus: When you're an alt.country superstar you won't need to ever be cross again!:jesus:
I am right now. I think it's probably because I miss my boyfriend so much and just want anyone to touch me, but god damn i'm crushing on everyone across the globe here!
Bailey, did you experience the sudden surge of hormones when you went off BC? I tell you, for a couple of days I could have humped concrete. I sometimes consider going on BC again just so I can quit it recreationally.
Kelly Kapowski
10-25-2006, 12:42 PM
haha! well there was a definite and noticable change in my libido, that's for sure. It's a shame i chose to get off it the week after irish john left D:
Leela
10-25-2006, 01:37 PM
All the time! I call it my "Ooooh, there's a boy!" stage where pretty much every guy that comes into my peripheral vision would be considered decent material
And yeah, my sex drive went through the roof after I went off of bc ;(
Static Split Screen
10-25-2006, 03:51 PM
how often do you see irish john bailey?
plus, i remember posting about you two breaking up or almost, so I didn't even know you two were still together!
Kelly Kapowski
10-25-2006, 03:51 PM
i'm so happy to have at least some of it back though. When irish john was last here, the effects of the BC were at it's worst for me and i was just in no mood at all. I mean, talk about a waste! o well, i'm still not a huge sex fiend type person, but at least some lusting is nice.
Static Split Screen
10-25-2006, 03:52 PM
ps - i went off paxil before i went to scotland this summer because my libido was completely and utterly gone. it was lame-o.
Kelly Kapowski
10-25-2006, 04:00 PM
how often do you see irish john bailey?
plus, i remember posting about you two breaking up or almost, so I didn't even know you two were still together!
o im sorry, i didnt see this!
we broke up july of '05 and then got back together this past may. So, between those months we didnt see each other once! Suprisingly, after about 6 months of not seeing him i didn't really mind anymore. Probably b/c i was trying to get over him but i knew that probably wasn't going to happen. But before that and since may it's been a variety of every 2 months, 3 months and once or twice almost 4 months.
but once i go to london for spring i'll hopefully be seeing him almost every weekend or something who KNOWSSS
kendra
10-25-2006, 05:38 PM
Wow I thought you were still broken up with him and I was like :darn: when you'd talk about him cos I thought you were heartbroken and dreaming!!! omg, I suck. :darn: :darn: :smelly:
Kelly Kapowski
10-25-2006, 06:02 PM
ew paul take that down please!
Daysleeper
10-25-2006, 06:09 PM
ew paul take that down please!
DONE :D
Kelly Kapowski
10-25-2006, 06:11 PM
omg THX u! that picture was full of rabies and gonorrhea and everything horrible in the world.
kendra, i'm laughing at you, that would be pathetic if it were true ;(
Hi There, Am Pam
10-25-2006, 06:29 PM
Bailey, the solution to your problem is if we become fuck-buddies.
That goes for any of the other ladies having this problem. Remember, I'm the shit and all the chicks want my cock, or alternatively, Poor me, I'll never be able to meet a nice girl who will love me!!!!
Hi There, Am Pam
10-25-2006, 06:32 PM
OMF! I just read page 2, and I didn't realize you were actually together with Irish Me. It's funny because I quick replied, and thought to myself, "I don't need to read the rest of the thread, what other posts could affect my reply?" Well I guess that answers that!
Oh well, it makes it all the more funny.
"Oh my God, he must be 17!" eeek.
this happened to me the other day! i was hanging out with my cousin and his friends who are like 17>??! and one guy wasnt all that attractive but he was quiet and really buff and i was strangely attracted to him! i felt like suuuch a perve. im not that much older but it was still wrong and made me feel creepy.
Kelly Kapowski
10-25-2006, 08:00 PM
OMF! I just read page 2, and I didn't realize you were actually together with Irish Me. It's funny because I quick replied, and thought to myself, "I don't need to read the rest of the thread, what other posts could affect my reply?" Well I guess that answers that!
Oh well, it makes it all the more funny.
LOL! jeeze, did everyone think i was dellusional or something? My god, Blamo, how you've changed, HOW YOU'VE CHANGED!
edit: i do realize "how you've changed" is completely irrelevant but still, BLAMO
Hi There, Am Pam
10-25-2006, 08:24 PM
Bailey... of course you're dellusional! Just not about that. It's why I really imagine you being your avatar.
Static Split Screen
10-25-2006, 08:37 PM
We just weren't in the know, gawd! Anyway I think it's cute, and I'm glad you get to see each other pretty often. Now that craig's not poor anymore i'm demanding we never go longer than 4 months without seeing each other. It'll only be 2 months this time hopefully. I have to ask my teachers if they'll move finals up for me next week, I hope they do!
Kelly Kapowski
10-25-2006, 08:56 PM
Bailey... of course you're dellusional! Just not about that. It's why I really imagine you being your avatar.
if i could be anyone, it'd be the kit in my avatar.
laura, do you ever count down the days? i've been counting them down for the past month; right now it's 54 days D; which isn't really horrible i guess. I just realized too that i actually went a year and 2 months without seeing John, but we were broken up for 10 months of that time. I don't even remember that time! Could be because I don't have a memory anymore.
Since i've been with john, even though we've both been poor most the time, it wasn't money that kept us apart but just conflicting schedules. I think almost the whole time i felt like sacrificing lots of things just to see him for a little, but he was more like, "oh well you can't visit then, i'll have finals 3 weeks later and will need that time to study" which bothered me even though it was rational. Then i kinda made him snap outta that shit though b/c you gotta make time.
That's good Craig isn't poor anymore! I know you guys have a while to go before anything can't properly happen b/c of school and what not, but it will happen. It feels impossible but it isn't, b/c i've done it and am doing it and am now seeing the light to the end of that tunnel, you know. God what do i know! long distance relationships = lol and things
Static Split Screen
10-25-2006, 09:04 PM
yeah i know, i'm hoping in two years i'll be able to transfer and go there for school, but it depends on if the university of aberdeen will let me be an exchange student and only pay cal state fees instead of the 8,000 pounds a year which i don't have a hope in hell of ever being to afford.
Are you going to move there or irish john come to the us of a, or just both go somewhere different? and when, details! long distance = hard.
Kelly Kapowski
10-25-2006, 09:12 PM
umm well i don't think we exactly know. He's applying for a Green Card this year and he's gonna try to get a job here, but he's so committed to his future career that if he gets a good offer across the country from where i am, he's probably gonna take it and then i'll have to go where he is. Today i was thinkinig that that's not so bad actually b/c i'm feeling a lot more open about my career and future so it'd be easier for me to find a job than it would be for him. I'm hoping he'll move to Boston tho next summer but that's me being an idealist.
I also want us both to move to Stockholm but i'm too scared to move out of the country right now for a long period of time. I'm still a homebody/family girl sooo, yah.
Hi There, Am Pam
10-25-2006, 09:21 PM
Bailey, I was at work today when I realized the perfect job for you - a jobcoach. It's what I do for a living. You get to work with the "special needs" population and help them perform their jobs. You basically stand there and talk with students who say the funniest damn stuff. I have loads of storys from my job. It usually pays a decent hourly rate, even though the hours are few (depending, I guess). They seem to be pretty popular these days.
The best part is working with the students. Totally brightens up your day when you get told, "the dog ate your toenails".
Kelly Kapowski
10-25-2006, 09:55 PM
haha! i think i could only take it for a small amount of time b/c i'm not a fan of slobber and, let's be honest here, we've all seen our fair share of slobber from those folks. Love 'em to death, but some of them can slobber like hell.
My mom's friend works with special needs kids and folks, and once one was throwing a temper tantrum and called my mom's friend a baby bitch! L:OL!
actually i just thought about it again and it seems like it could actually be a really fun job, slobber and all!
(sorta really off topic) all you who are moving countries, have moved, etc... how does that work without school? i mean i know if i were to go to school in usa they would give me a visa and i would be fine.. but i almost have my degree which is general bullshit arts/culture sorta thing so im gonna finish it here in canada where i dont have to pay crazy fees... but i know i want to live somewhere like chicago or portland or la or new york or seattle after i graduate... so i just apply for a green card?? how long does it take, what do i need to get it.. how long does it last? i think i could search for a job that would give me a work visa but that could take me forever to find right? and i want a decent job where i can actually pay back my loans... anyone have any advice cause i feel like i have no idea what im talking about... sorry random.
Kelly Kapowski
10-25-2006, 10:07 PM
well you can apply for a green card, but it's a lottery so some people could get one after 5 years and some people can wait their whole lives for one and never get it. You need a work visa. I think your company has to sponsor you or something in order for you to obtain the visa.
Otherwise i really don't know what else is out there besides marriage. Immigration and visas is one thing that is really hard for me to get my head around.
edit: actually, if yer canadian i dont think you can even apply for a green card right now b/c you've had too many immigrants registered here, but it'll change eventually so that you can, i just dont know when
damn! i want to go within the next year or 2.. i should have started looking into it a long time... maybe if i take a little 1-2 yr art school type thing i could get a visa??
so its not possible for me to just move there and try to find a job that will give me a work visa? like if they really like me they can sponser me? or i have to be sponsered from my canadian work to go there? im so dumb. it always seemed so simple but now that im really wanting to do it i realize i have no idea how to make it happen.
mr. dynamite
10-26-2006, 01:59 AM
is marriage in the cards?/11
Narcissistic Nihilist
10-26-2006, 02:36 AM
(sorta really off topic) all you who are moving countries, have moved, etc... how does that work without school? i mean i know if i were to go to school in usa they would give me a visa and i would be fine.. but i almost have my degree which is general bullshit arts/culture sorta thing so im gonna finish it here in canada where i dont have to pay crazy fees... but i know i want to live somewhere like chicago or portland or la or new york or seattle after i graduate... so i just apply for a green card?? how long does it take, what do i need to get it.. how long does it last? i think i could search for a job that would give me a work visa but that could take me forever to find right? and i want a decent job where i can actually pay back my loans... anyone have any advice cause i feel like i have no idea what im talking about... sorry random.
For Canadians, immigration to the US isnt much of a problem. Special immigration privileges are given to Canadaians and Mexicans for obvious geographical reasons.
The green card lottery is a no no. It is designed to increase diversity within the US population, and is only avaliable to residents of countries that dont make the top group of immigrants as it stands, (ie its not avaliable to most developed nations).
ANY entrant into the US requires a pre-approved visa, even just for tourism, (except certain countries on the "Visa-Waiver Scheme", ie Western countries again, and that is for a maximum of 90 days). As for visas to work or study, you need someone from within the US to "petition" for you to come over, you cant do it yourself.
Meg is filing the petition for me to come over on a fiance visa, which allows me to work but on the condition that we marry within 90 days of me arriving on that visa. Even then, I have to file for a work permit with the Department of Labour when I arrive.
All this does not come cheap. These "petitions" cost a lot of money to file and your money is not refunded if it is unsuccessful. An employment visa, (ie when an employer files to get a non-US citizen over for a job) costs over $2000 to file alone, and requires the Department of Labour to agree that that person is not taking a job away from a US-citizen, in other words, they have to prove they can do a job that no other US citizen can do.
US immigration is a notorious pain in the ass, but Canadians do have special privileges. Good Luck.
jas1n
10-26-2006, 03:13 AM
I also want us both to move to Stockholm but i'm too scared to move out of the country right now for a long period of time. I'm still a homebody/family girl sooo, yah.
maybe you should consider moving somewhere else within the country first if you can stand being away from family?
For Canadians, immigration to the US isnt much of a problem. Special immigration privileges are given to Canadaians and Mexicans for obvious geographical reasons.
ANY entrant into the US requires a pre-approved visa, even just for tourism, (except certain countries on the "Visa-Waiver Scheme", ie Western countries again, and that is for a maximum of 90 days). As for visas to work or study, you need someone from within the US to "petition" for you to come over, you cant do it yourself.
All this does not come cheap. These "petitions" cost a lot of money to file and your money is not refunded if it is unsuccessful. An employment visa, (ie when an employer files to get a non-US citizen over for a job) costs over $2000 to file alone, and requires the Department of Labour to agree that that person is not taking a job away from a US-citizen, in other words, they have to prove they can do a job that no other US citizen can do.
US immigration is a notorious pain in the ass, but Canadians do have special privileges. Good Luck.
omg... so if someone petitioned for me, like a friend or whatever, that could work?? it doesnt have to be an employer?? it can be just any old american citizen? and the company pays that 2000$ or you do? and where do i find these companys and what kind of jobs can i do that any other american cant?!? seems very impossible. :(
is marriage in the cards?/11
omg kurt will you marry me just so i can get citizenship or whatevs? we would totally date other people and we could divorce as soon as i get everything i need right?!? hahah. oh if only.
Intern Kate
10-26-2006, 10:41 AM
i haven't had a fun crush in a zillion depressing years. haha, but man, i work with mostly women at the coffee place, 'till one day i worked a Sunday with a very cute boy named Jamie. i found out sometime later he's in high school. D:
a hippy with gray dreads gave me his number and asked me to go look at his sculptures made out of drift material, and a regular at the coffee shop got a bullet stamped with my name to give as a birthday present. that is the only opposite-sex attention i have garnered as of late and i am not even confident they were interested in me.
halp. !
Kelly Kapowski
10-26-2006, 11:18 AM
maybe you should consider moving somewhere else within the country first if you can stand being away from family?
well duhz0rz, i've never even been to Stockholm. I have no idea what's going to happen with my life okay!1 is this a ploy to get me to move to indiana?
kate, HAHA!! seriously, laughinggg. The other day I was working at the door greeting guests and these two men, they were honestly about 70, came in and I was chatting with them and joking around. Then one of them, who was dressed in tight jeans, flannel shirt, cowboy boots and a wallet-chain said, "she's cute, isn't she?" and his friend was like okay..and he said, "you a college girl?" and i was like, "yeah" and he said, "good girl" and then went shopping for a few minutes and came back and put his arm around me and said, "ready to go? ;)" and i was like LOL and he was like, "wish i could. You know, i ain't got no one at home to be sweet on ;)" and he asked me what i was studying at school and i said music and he said, "you mean you gonna be all around those long haired guys grindin' with each other??" and i said, "yeah i love it!!" and he said "disgusting! good luck, pretty lady" LOL and then i realized if i were drunk i'd probably love him :darn:
Herr Lipp
10-26-2006, 11:20 AM
did they look like this at all:
http://newsimg.bbc.co.uk/media/images/39403000/jpg/_39403399_gits203.jpg
Narcissistic Nihilist
10-26-2006, 11:41 AM
omg... so if someone petitioned for me, like a friend or whatever, that could work?? it doesnt have to be an employer?? it can be just any old american citizen? and the company pays that 2000$ or you do? and where do i find these companys and what kind of jobs can i do that any other american cant?!? seems very impossible. :(
First things first, you need to sort out which visa you want to get. A friend cant do it simply by being a friend. An immediate member of your family CAN do that simply by being them, but thats it.
As for who pays the money, i dont think it matters. The company would have to hand it over with the petition, but if the prospective employee gives it to the company to hand over, I fail to see what law that breaks. Where to find such companies? Who knows? I dont think you can really answer that question, its just case of what you can offer, I suppose.
I dont think it would be so hard to go over and study (it would up to the educational establishment to petition for you), and as I said before, Canadians (I am presuming you are) get it easier. As for how or what, I dont know. Not being Canadian, I have had no need to explore that.
jas1n
10-27-2006, 03:11 AM
well duhz0rz, i've never even been to Stockholm. I have no idea what's going to happen with my life okay!1 is this a ploy to get me to move to indiana?
lol, i never said that. but now that you mention it, if you move to indiana- my friends and i would love you forever.
Intern Kate
10-27-2006, 01:53 PM
well duhz0rz, i've never even been to Stockholm. I have no idea what's going to happen with my life okay!1 is this a ploy to get me to move to indiana?
kate, HAHA!! seriously, laughinggg. The other day I was working at the door greeting guests and these two men, they were honestly about 70, came in and I was chatting with them and joking around. Then one of them, who was dressed in tight jeans, flannel shirt, cowboy boots and a wallet-chain said, "she's cute, isn't she?" and his friend was like okay..and he said, "you a college girl?" and i was like, "yeah" and he said, "good girl" and then went shopping for a few minutes and came back and put his arm around me and said, "ready to go? ;)" and i was like LOL and he was like, "wish i could. You know, i ain't got no one at home to be sweet on ;)" and he asked me what i was studying at school and i said music and he said, "you mean you gonna be all around those long haired guys grindin' with each other??" and i said, "yeah i love it!!" and he said "disgusting! good luck, pretty lady" LOL and then i realized if i were drunk i'd probably love him :darn:
just, wow!
good girl!
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