spin off kinda i guess.!

[milpool]

so, how awful is it to flirt with other people when you're in a pretty serious relationship? i have this habit of getting kinda flirty with the guys and dolls when i've had a few too many but then i feel like such a gigantic dick the next day. and i should, prob.. but its all really just harmless and i'm kind of an attention whore sometimes. but i think it can get you into trouble when certain friends that you flirt with say things like "i'd like you to tie me up and do me". so .. uh. thats a sticky situation. i am not interested in this guy like that at all, but he was drunk too. omagad, what to do.

i kinda got off track here.

[rogaine]

it's funny how when you're talking to someoen else you totally think it's no big deal but when it's happening to you, you feel confused! i think flirting is totally normal also, as long as you're not doing it in front of your man. you know what i mean? people flirt all the time. it's fun, makes you feel good, and raises your confidence which can improve your relationship!

like you said, as long as you don't cheat, there's no harm done.

[jas1n]

one of my good friends said that anything you wouldn't do in front of your boyf/girlf should be considered prohibited. i kinda agree within reason.

[Static Split Screen]

I think as long as it's harmless it's okay within reason. I don't think I do, unless I flirt unintentionally.

[Narcissistic Nihilist]

one of my good friends said that anything you wouldn't do in front of your boyf/girlf should be considered prohibited. i kinda agree within reason.

Damn straight. That doesnt include things you would do to them.

[Jackal]

one of my good friends said that anything you wouldn't do in front of your boyf/girlf should be considered prohibited. i kinda agree within reason.

Agreed. Flirting can get you into big trouble. I see it as cheating because its getting a type of thrill from another man.

Also, being drunk doesn't get you off the hook.

[TheImplodingVoice]

Just remember that flirting is no big deal for a girl, but for a guy is like "OMG IM GONNA SCORE"

[TheImplodingVoice]

yes, we're that pathetic

[Fab]

I flirt with plenty of my friends, I think it's perfectly ok with friends because most of them know what you're like and that you don't mean it, but there's a very fine line between flirting with strangers and leading them on, and being led on is not fun. Umm... so yeah, i think if the flirtee thinks they're going to get some then it's bad.

[Barbara]

I dunno if I flirt anymore or not, besides on the internet... for a long time now I've felt really uncomfortable being hit on or paid any extra attention to by a strange guy, even if he was cute. That's part of the reason it took CJ about 2 weeks of flirting and asking before I would agree to go on a date with him Also, if I see him flirt with any girl, even if we're all friends and I know it doesn't mean anything and stuff, I feel really jealous and angry. It depends on what I think of the girl, too. If I trust her and I feel like she's not a slut, it won't bother me so much. If she's a known slut who I know has hopped on many a guy's cock regardless of boyfriend status (i.e. if she's fucked around with any of CJ's or my guy friends), the littlest flirty thing will make me feel like stabbing her in the face. :)

[Peter]

I flirt with every cute girl that I work with unabashedly, but I'm not aiming to have sex with any of them. It's more for the entertainment of everyone involved. Sometimes restaurant work is boring, and so the goal of any good restaurant staff is to have as much fun as possible at work amongst ourselves...one of those ways is overtly ridiculous flirting. Besides, they all have boyfriends except one of them, and she's overweight...so no go there.

[rogaine]

thank you, peter! i agree 100%. flirting is fun and raises the self esteem of everyone involved!

[Narcissistic Nihilist]

I dunno if I flirt anymore or not, besides on the internet... for a long time now I've felt really uncomfortable being hit on or paid any extra attention to by a strange guy, even if he was cute. That's part of the reason it took CJ about 2 weeks of flirting and asking before I would agree to go on a date with him Also, if I see him flirt with any girl, even if we're all friends and I know it doesn't mean anything and stuff, I feel really jealous and angry. It depends on what I think of the girl, too. If I trust her and I feel like she's not a slut, it won't bother me so much. If she's a known slut who I know has hopped on many a guy's cock regardless of boyfriend status (i.e. if she's fucked around with any of CJ's or my guy friends), the littlest flirty thing will make me feel like stabbing her in the face. :)

A voice of sense amongst the imbeciles. :)

[Barbara]

there's just too many sluts in this town :D like seriously, everyone seems to be fucking everyone here and I know at least four people with STD's, some of the guys I know just make me wanna puke because they'll put their cock in anything. Girls who don't know who their baby's daddy is, guys who have a baby's momma AND an ex girlfriend that they still fuck AND are out fucking whoever they can get when they aren't balls-deep in their former conquests, jeez. Can people not live without sex anymore? I enjoy sex for sure, but damn, it ain't worth the herpes and unwanted babies

[ramblingrose]

Besides, they all have boyfriends except one of them, and she's overweight...so no go there.


So she'd never dare to think that anyone would want to go further than flirting? You might not have meant it that way, but that comes over as a bit mean.

[Narcissistic Nihilist]

Can people not live without sex anymore? I enjoy sex for sure, but damn, it ain't worth the herpes and unwanted babies

The short answer is no. Most people arent intelligent enough to think above their genitalia and try to use it to their advantage. Its an old prehistoric thing that some people havent grown out of yet. The world will be a better place if/when these people stop these dumb games.

[The Tourist]

But Danny, your vitriol is born from your testosterone.. and you act upon that. :O I think you have angry young man syndrome, go tug it out and come back with stories of lust and, er, love.

[i]

there's dicks and cunts and sluts and butts, oh pimps and hos, yeah plenty of those

[Narcissistic Nihilist]

But Danny, your vitriol is born from your testosterone.. and you act upon that. :O I think you have angry young man syndrome, go tug it out and come back with stories of lust and, er, love.
I can hardly be classed as young. My vitriol is born out of my utter contempt for lazy thinking and injustice.

[sleepy sinner]

Well...I think there are grades of flirting. For example, if a customer flirts with me for five minutes while they're buying a drink, I just think its fun because I'll probably never see them again and there's no real feeling beyond being in a good mood and adding a bit of a spark to your boring day.
But pretty much anything else I don't like to do or would feel guilty about...its hard initiating innocent conversations with guys here when you're out/partying because unless you state really early that you're not single (which then makes you look up yourself) most of them construe any conversation whatsoever as a chance to pick up. And I just hate that uncomfortable moment of having to say um...I'm not after you etc. I just want to TALK.

[Static Split Screen]

I act nice and smiley when people talk to me at work etc, and I think people think that's flirting. And some guy started talking to me as I was walking to my car after school. I thought he was just being polite until he said he had to go and ask if he could have my number. I told him I had a boyfriend and he gave me a dirty look and walked away. :darn:

[Lalique]

i tend to flirt with girls when drunk. I don't think I have any lesbo urges though. although i do get non-sexual crushes on girls.

[homer j. simpson]

i'm single and i'm a shameless flirt :D it is just so much fun and no harm done, i leave situations with great new friends.

as for flirting whilst being in a relationship, i think it depends on the people/situation really, like fun-flirting within friends is pretty much no biggie. but then, if i was at a bar or something like that with my guy and he started chatting up random skanks, that'd be pretty shitty. also it depends on the people within the relationships themselves and whether or not they know their boundaries/what their sig other is comfortable with/what the other person in the flirtation situation is expecting.

but yeah on the whole flirting is fun stuff.