i had a sex dream last night about my supervisor.

[rogaine]

and now i keep thinking about how good he is in bed. and i keep having fantasies of doing it with him and dating him. i seriously have that butterfly in the stomach feeling when i think about him. i can't tell if i have a crush on HIM, or on the guy in my dream. whenever i see him at work i totally am not into him but the more i think about him the more i think maybe he flirts with me at work.

this would all be cool if i didn't have a boyfriend.

what does this mean? how bad of a person am i?

[ramblingrose]

You're not a bad person! You're young, you have hormones, this is what happens when you have a boyfriend. When you're single you pray for these dreams.

[rogaine]

ok, well, if it's normal.. when should i start to worry?
i'm nervous about work tomorrow and might try to look extra cute and go in in normal clothes, not my work outfit. lol

[Hi There, Am Pam]

We spoke about it of course, but I just wanted to mention that it's fairly common. I think the human body isn't really meant specifically for monogammy, and sometimes that might cause undesired impulses. Not to say monogammy is bad, of course, but that's it's not entirely natural to us.

[milpool]

yeah dude, i have sex dreams about just about everyone. i think its fine..yer in a commited relationship but thats just the way people are. no matter how in love with someone you are its human nature to constantly check out other people and yknow, the brain wanders.. as long as yer vagina doesnt who cares.

[rogaine]

thanks dudes. i know i didn't do anything wrong, i am just nervous about the feelings i have for my "dream" guy. it's been a while since i've had a crush! sex today has been pretty fun.

i think that's a whole different problem entirely... teheh.

[milpool]

man, one time i had a sex dream about david bowie and it was so, so awesome. then brad pitt and jennifer aniston walked in on us and were like "oh, you guys! ":D"". sigh. david bowie.

[jas1n]

i used to have a crush on this girl i worked with at my old job... and one time i had this super short dream where we were sitting on a bed and she goes, "wanna do it?" and i said, "no." and then i woke up. D:

[rogaine]

lol. that's the hottest sex dream ever!

[milpool]

hahaha, k that blows.

maybe you are really gay?

[jas1n]

hahaha, k that blows.

maybe you are really gay?

nah, but my boss is still convinced that i'm gay. :\

[Jackal]

As long as it stays in your head, it's fine. I even think dressing cute to be around a person you fantasize about is cheating.

[rogaine]

really? wow. i don't. i don't even think flirting is cheating. my boyfriend flirts with other girls and i know it. it doesn't make me HAPPY but i can't say much since i do the same thing.

[Daysleeper]

No, I don't see flirting as cheating either.

[Jackal]

There's 2 kinds of flirting, the silly off the cuff kind or the intentional, seeking to get a certain kind of attention kind. Premeditated flirting is cheating.

[blackeyedAngel]

i think it would be totally fun to have a student/professor relationship. definitely frowned upon though. i had a sex dream last night about brad pitt, and i don't even think brad pitt is very good looking! but when i woke up this morning, i was like "mmm, brad pitt." i also had a dream about steve carrell, but he was younger, like my age, but we didn't hook up cuz i lost him (long story). but he totally liked me and i was smitten as well.