BITCHING!

[Jackal]

I just feel like bitching today. I want to have fun and do something new and exciting, but I won't. I want to want something, I want to just feel happy all day, and not meet with any doubt or worries. But I won't.

I'd like to get through a fucking day without wishing I was elsewhere. What I would like most is to have something I'm looking forward too, and have another person want to be there as much as me.

Fuck it all to hell, because all this shit's up to me! I get sick of trying to be happy, because it never sticks. I get sick of being responsible for everything.

[Jackal]

Question to guys:

Do you see bitching as just bitching, or as issues a woman finds important?
If it involves you changing or doing something, does that make it more likely to be considered just bitching?

Question to women:

If you bitch about something often, and it's something you can't control, how do you ever just learn to overlook it completely? Is that possible?

[LOST_kitty_k]

This whole past week I've been bitching about my in-laws and I have to go to their house to have lunch with them today. I don't want to see Jason's pervy dad or hear his mother drone on about what she did each day of the week. I'm tired of seeing these people and having them speak to me like I'm the one who is an idiot and being racist cunts on top of that. For once I'd like to have a visit where we don't just eat and sit on our asses while they pump us for information so they can have gossip. :wall: :wall: :wall: :wall: :wall: :wall: :wall: :wall: :wall:

[kendra]

:yes:

I love you both :cry:

[Cool As Ice Cream]

Bitch, bitch, bitch.

Sometimes I love bitching.

[ramblingrose]

I'm reading a book called "Why Men Love Bitches" but actually it's quite rubbish and just tells you not to be a pushover. I thought it was going to tell me why sometimes your friend has an inexplicably horrible girlfriend, but it doesn't. bof.

[Barbarian Love Elephant]

ugh i bet that book sits right beside your copy of stupid white men and a bootleg of al gores docu

ew to you

[El Loto]

I agree wiht Bram bitching is hella fun.

[ramblingrose]

ugh i bet that book sits right beside your copy of stupid white men and a bootleg of al gores docu

ew to you

It's actually next to a James Herriot omnibus

[Jackal]

:yes:

I love you both :cry:

Aw, I love you too!!

[Static Split Screen]

Bitching is neccesary I think. It's good to just get emotions out.

My bitch-rant: I'm not that interested in college or anything here. I see one friend now and then but other than that I'm alone, and I feel really lonely, especially at night. I just wish I could be happy here, because it's not like my life is that bad at all, I just have to mess everything up with my anxiety and silliness.

[Atomsk Iscariot]

I thought it was going to tell me why sometimes your friend has an inexplicably horrible girlfriend, but it doesn't. bof.

There is no book that can explain that sort of thing.

[Nymphadora]

My bitch-rant: I'm not that interested in college or anything here. I see one friend now and then but other than that I'm alone, and I feel really lonely, especially at night. I just wish I could be happy here, because it's not like my life is that bad at all, I just have to mess everything up with my anxiety and silliness.

Don't worry honey, you'll find your way

[Herr Lipp]

I like a bitch, but I'm not averse to doing it to someones face. It's more spiteful, but fuck it I never bitch for no reason.

[Jackal]

I don't really bitch so much in real life. I'm patient, nice and forgiving.

Time bomb.

[aria]

I'm surrounded by people who bitch all the time. My license to kill has been suspended pending inquiry.

and i still don't get how the round the clock bitch-ers don't bore themselves to death...

[ramblingrose]

I'm surrounded by people who bitch all the time.

librarians?

[Jackal]

:rolleyes:

What's the difference between an adult and a "grown adult"?

[Barbarian Love Elephant]

Grown adult is used to make you feel like a moron,it's usually invoked by assholes

[Static Split Screen]

librarians?

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[Jackal]

No. I see it as a failure to conduct oneself like a grown adult.

After bitching for 4 weeks, I acted like an adult yesterday. I told my sister I wasn't able to care for my grandmother anymore. Of course she came back with a plan to cut it down to 2 days a week and have her dressed when I show up. I said no, she got mad.

They are selling her house, car and the rest of her possessions, yet wondered where the money to pay a in home nurse would come from. (Duh!)

She also mentioned to her the stuff I said in confidence, like how she complained all the time and talked about her bodily functions constantly. How can a person be so cruel, and tell an old woman to stop talking about her troubles and to quit bitching?

I don't have a clue what my poor grandmother is thinking about me right now. She's the person I don't want to get hurt in this mess. I'll call her later.

I know I'm doing the right thing for me and my family, but I feel terrible about it, I want to help, but I just can't handle it. I'm sure my sister thinks I'm lazy or spoiled. I think she would be happier living in a nursing home too.

I guess it is better to quit bitching and act like a grown adult, sometimes!:)

[kendra]

Caring for the elderly is never as much fun as bitching. :/