My Ranty Thread (don't come in if you don't feel like giving pity)

[The Sellout]

I'm not normally one to post incredibly personal diatrabes here, but this one was golden. Seriously hate myself for this

FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK,

I completely pussied out on asking out the girl I like right now. The runway was totally clear too.

so, she messages me about a play she wants to see. This is like almost no warning, and i get to her rez a little late (for unimportant reasons). By the time we get to the theatre, the box office is already closed. and we walked (missed opportunity 1)

So, we decide to go back to my room to watch a movie. Sadly, my laptop doesn't work (for the previously mentioned unimportant reasons, which i've fixed since then). Awkward silence (missed opportunity 2).

Finally, i decide to walk her back to her room (missed opportunity 3), while in there, she gives me back a book she had borrowed, and i leave, with a simple goodbye (worst missed opporunity - 4).

I was IN HER ROOM, and still pussied out. Fuck.

[The Sellout]

Even better.

The movie were planning to watch is on TV now.

Perfect night

[Liquid Sunshine]

go round and see her right now!!!!

[TheNegreptDog]

http://img413.imageshack.us/img413/128/failye4.jpg

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I'm sorry. that's just a big ol' load of bad.

[E Smith Rock]

ask her out, it's simple, you know her, you like her, it's easy now.

[pcianciaruso]

i hear you man, the right opportunity is like a fleeting moment, you gotta nail it.

i hereby extend pity.

my advice to you would be to make sure you keep showing interest in her, maybe ask her to go to a diner or something, and then just let conversation take its course.

all hope is not lost!

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ask her out, it's simple, you know her, you like her, it's easy now.

I hate it when people say this. "Dude, just ask her, it's easy!"

No it's not easy. And if it is easy for you, you need to realize it's not that easy for a lot of people.

[The Sellout]

don't get me wrong, it's going to happen.

I think i'm going shopping with her on Friday (possibly, not 100% yet), and hopefully it'll happen then.

I'm now sort of at a point that i think it's kind of funny (the movie thing especially), but if it happens again, i'll be kicking myself further for sure

[CombatWombat]

What do you want to happen? What do you want to be able to do that you don't feel like you can? Do you want to ask her out on a "date"? Do you want to tell her you like her? Do you want to ask her to be your girlfriend? How long have you known her? Is that enough questions for one post?

I'd say if you're already friends and hang out on a regular basis, start flirting with her. If that seems to work out alright, schedule a "date." You don't have to call it that...you can just plan to go out and do something...maybe something slightly more romantic than what you would normally do. Let it build up. I mean...you could just come right out with your feelings to her, but it doesn't sound like you feel comfortable with that, and unless she's right on the same page with you, it's gonna freak her out a bit.

So yeah...do that! Wait, what's "that"?

:yes:

[The Sellout]

i think she has suspicions (how could she not what with the awkward way i left her room), so i'm thinking of coming right out and telling her; or at least asking her out on a date (and calling that too). just eliminate any more confusion and all. Besides, no matter what, it;ll be over with when it happens, so that's half of the challenge right there

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Call her.

Right now.







Not really.

[half asleep]

I feel awkward just reading this thread...

[XXX]

i am pretty offended that you used the word pussily,
am i right ladies???

[XXX]

maybe if you looked at less porn your laptop would actually work, you fucking PIG.

[jsunshyne]

i second the p word thing...

you can not do that.

it is totally bad.

no man ever uses that word.

[XXX]

shut the fuck up, you fucking gashface

[XXX]

i second the p word thing...

you can not do that.

it is totally bad.

no man ever uses that word.

*high five of solidarity*

[jsunshyne]

*high five of solidarity*

*smacks*
*grabs yer ass fer good measure*
*looks around to see if anybody is watching*
*spits*

[jinp6301]

:( good luck next time!

[E Smith Rock]

I hate it when people say this. "Dude, just ask her, it's easy!"

No it's not easy. And if it is easy for you, you need to realize it's not that easy for a lot of people.

What's hard for me, is getting to know a girl without all the physical stuff in between. I think once you realize that you really like a girls personality, you should go for it, if she says no, tough banana's, its not the end of the world. I know all about fear of rejection, but if she doesn't want you, why do you still want her?

[Liquid Sunshine]

but if she doesn't want you, why do you still want her?

maybe she looks like this :\

http://216.151.162.62/images/1085/20823/large/074.jpg

[E Smith Rock]

my head can't take the crap that some girls put some guys through though. I feel really bad when I see girls getting treated horribly by guys as well, but I am not that tough so im not "yo bro, step off" "no, I'm makin in my business, lets go" the guy being controlled should be able to control himself, and vice versa in the end. Not saying im not shallow in the end, but not to the point where I can be pushed around and compromise my enitre personality just because she's beautiful.

[Liquid Sunshine]

:lol: ok

:\ don't take no crap

POWER http://www.websmileys.com/sm/violent/sterb030.gif to your FREEDOM

looks are SO the 90's

welcome to the MILLENIUM http://www.websmileys.com/sm/happy/032.gif where it is ALL ABOUT personality and mutual respect. OH YEH

[E Smith Rock]

yikes.

[Fat Brian Wilson]

Evening star struck one
Wondering how come
Suddenly becoming completely undone

Just as I looked into your eyes for the first tine
I was already in love with you

Nothing in my dreams
Could possibly have braced me
For the feeling that faced me on

Just as I looked into your eyes for the first tine
I was already in love with you

My heart tapped me on the shoulder
And whispered in my ear:

"Don't be a pussy all your life"

[nugzie]

girls like confidence. be confident and assertive. dont act like a wimp or she'll NEVER want you. don't be cocky, just confident. ask her out, if she says no, then act like you don't sweat it. don't bug her or get creepy. i just had this happened to me and i was forced to be mean to the guy and I felt bad but he just didnt get it.

[XXX]

her advice is wrong,
act really cocky and talk about how youre better than everyone,
also asking her how her day is is not something to worry about until at least 2 years into the relationship
ideally she should see you in 3 fights
1. beating up a guy smaller than you
2. beating up a guy larger than you
3. taking a valiant beating from a couple of hooligans who looked at her the wrong way

if you abide by these rules, you'll be in browntown in no time.

[XXX]

i mean browntown in the most respectful way.

[Ally]

her advice is wrong,
act really cocky and talk about how youre better than everyone,
also asking her how her day is is not something to worry about until at least 2 years into the relationship
ideally she should see you in 3 fights
1. beating up a guy smaller than you
2. beating up a guy larger than you
3. taking a valiant beating from a couple of hooligans who looked at her the wrong way

if you abide by these rules, you'll be in browntown in no time.

as a lady i would like to say this no truer words were ever spoken

[The Sellout]

her advice is wrong,
act really cocky and talk about how youre better than everyone,
also asking her how her day is is not something to worry about until at least 2 years into the relationship
ideally she should see you in 3 fights
1. beating up a guy smaller than you
2. beating up a guy larger than you
3. taking a valiant beating from a couple of hooligans who looked at her the wrong way

if you abide by these rules, you'll be in browntown in no time.

:moose: Well, we were talking about hobo fights yesterday (they're actually relativly commonplace around here)

[CombatWombat]

Browntown. :lol:

[dajxd]

Show her this thread.

[Liquid Sunshine]

girls like confidence. be confident and assertive. dont act like a wimp or she'll NEVER want you. don't be cocky, just confident. ask her out, if she says no, then act like you don't sweat it. don't bug her or get creepy. i just had this happened to me and i was forced to be mean to the guy and I felt bad but he just didnt get it.

meh, saying girls like this
and boys like this
is too general

[The Sellout]

well, apparently no harm done. Either she knows and doesn't care, knows and cares in a good way, or doesn't know. We're going bagpipe reed shopping (i shit you not, i'm learning to play the bagpipes) tommorow, and we'll see where it goes. Thanks for the comic relief with the occasional useful statement thrown in. Smilies for all of you :band:


one last thing:

maybe she looks like this :\
*image too damn big to quote and copy again


am i crazy, or did she look kind of :\ to everyone else too? Like nice eyes, but kinda manmouthed? (if she bears a striking resemblance to anyone's girlfriend, i apologise in advance)

[TheKeenGuy]

don't get me wrong, it's going to happen.

I think i'm going shopping with her on Friday
I'm sorry, but these two statements are in direct contrast with each other.

[The Sellout]

I'm sorry, but these two statements are in direct contrast with each other.

yeh grasp at what yeh can get. I'll drag her to a concert sometime.

[Liquid Sunshine]

am i crazy, or did she look kind of :\ to everyone else too? Like nice eyes, but kinda manmouthed? (if she bears a striking resemblance to anyone's girlfriend, i apologise in advance)

Its not like I want to turn this thread into a 'hey look I'm being shallow' kinda thread, but, how bout this then:

http://216.151.162.62/images/1085/196978/large/005.jpg

P.S personality seems to make a person looks either miles better or totally detestable, conventional beauty is a curse to those who suffer it........is what I think.

[Dylan Thomas]

Stop being such a little pansy.
First off you're completely jinxing yourself.
You're going about it all wrong as well.

It's not about what you asker her,
tell her, what plans you make,
it's about how you act in her presence.
If you act right, things will naturally flow.

You've already got past the comfort barriers with each other,
I'm assuming this because you've already hung out a few times.
Now you need to move into sending a little affection her way
other wise she's going to see you as a friend.

Don’t tell her you like her,
Show her you like her with your actions.


More pickup lessons on Friday

[Ghostdog]

*BEEP* *BEEP* ASSERTIVE WANKER-ALERT